Will Falconer, DVM Moderator
I agree: manmade dysfunction. The worst is when a dog is owned by well meaning folks who don't take the leadership role. I've personally seen disastrous behavior resulting from this, like you mention.
It happens in kids as well. When parents are too lax, the child feels unsafe and unsure, being thrust into a position of power he has no knowledge of or boundaries about.
I worry for first time dog owners in this regard, and often refer them to positive reinforcement trainers to become aware of their needed status and to stop giving cues that confuse the dog or unknowingly encourage wrong behavior.
Thanks, Paula, you've added immeasurably to this post with your insights.